A recollection of Vincent Jones Vincent first came into our lives as a tenant about 20 years ago when he moved into our property to live with his brother Maurice. From a glance it would appear that the relationship between us would seem as simple as an agreement of tenancy, over the years it became much more. You simply cannot interact with someone for over 20 years, no matter of the reason that brought you together without a deeper relationship being fostered. Initially, the reason for his moving in was his brother. Maurice had lived at the property with his mother Eva for at least 15 years prior to Vincent coming along. In the beginning they were just two brothers living together, splitting costs and offering each other companionship. As time went on, Maurice's health began to slowly fail and a deeper insight into Vincent's true character became apparent. Vincent took great care of his brother for a long as he possibly could ( which was over the course of a number of years). He doted over him daily and only when the time came that he could no longer physically offer him the care that he required did he allow him leave for extended care. Vincent was also a vibrant personality in the building. He interacted with and developed relationships with all of the tenants. He would clear the snow off the front steps before anyone left for work and sometimes even clean the snow off the cars. He was noticed and appreciated and valued by everyone he interacted with. He inspired thank you cards from the other tenants in response to his efforts. Over the years I have also been made aware that Vincent's character and personality also made an impact on those in the local community where he was very well known and well liked. It has been said that more important than money or gold, a person needs a bit of mercy in the bank in case they may at some point need to make a withdrawal. After caring for his brother and being there for his neighbours he certainly had that. Over the past few years his good friends Nikki and Susan saw to it that his needs were seen to, whether it be dropping off dinners on Thanksgiving and Christmas, making sure his groceries were seen to, ensuring he made it to medical appointments or just offering kind words and a sense that he was loved and valued. They were with him to the end and will both miss him very much. Vincent was kind, positive and engaging. He was a good friend to all and an excellent neighbour. He was loved and will be missed by all who knew him.
